Dating a girl who rejected me
We're still cordial when we see other (we're classmates) but I never initiated anything myself afterwards.
Now it's summer vacation, and she texts me out of the blue.
WHAT THE F IS UP WITH GUYS HERE BEING ON THIS SITE BEING FRIENDS WITH FEMALES WHO CONSTANTLY DIS THEM AND DISRESPECT THEM. Couple of days later I send a text, "Hey, when we going to hang out next? Few days later I get a text, "You wanna get lunch on Monday? So now we're getting lunch and I have no idea what's going on. Why would she want some dude who's into her to be her friend?
Does she expect me to pretend that I'm not into her or does she have other goals in mind? We got together for lunch at the end of the semester. I (stupidly) tell her that I like her, she basically tells me that she wants to be friends for now.
It is not necessary that she has some wrong intense for doing this. infact if you go along with pretending to be her friend then its a friendship built on lies, if you then at a later stage go "hey can we date now" no doubt she will get angry at you because she THOUGHT you were friends. she may then suggest another day, then you can be like, i have other plans. you be the one to decide if it OFF or ON or OFF or ON be the man Although in the past I would generally have agreed with everyone telling you to ditch her, my philosophy has changed somewhat--although since I've been married forever, it's not something I've ever really put into actual practice.
then she will no doubt STOP talking to you shortly after. I don't see a problem with going for lunch with a girl like this, provided you actually want lunch, and provided you don't pay for her lunch.
Or maybe she just change her mind and decided you look good enough to be in her presence.
Couple of days later I send a text, "Hey, when we going to hang out next? Few days later I get a text, "You wanna get lunch on Monday? So now we're getting lunch and I have no idea what's going on. Why would she want some dude who's into her to be her friend? if you erased her number and didnt contact her, why are you going out to lunch with her!?!? Dont you know she's only doing that because it's feeding some deep rooted control issues with her!!! At the end of the day I half-joking say, "How bout a kiss? Couple of days after that I ask her over text when her night school ends.