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He very pointedly avoided checking it while I was there and asked for 'privacy please' so he could check it. I am very sorry for you and wish you the strength you'll need to confront what I suspect you already know. I am very sorry for you and wish you the strength you'll need to confront what I suspect you already know. Your train of thought lost me -- "The content of the IM was not the issue ..." BUT, yes, it was, because he asked to take it in private so you couldn't SEE the content and that bothered you. As a married man I can tell you if I got an IM from a 'single lady friend' and then turned to my wife and said "privacy please" I would (quite rightly) be slugged in the face to the refrain "privacy my ass".
We've been married for almost 13 years and much of the tenderness and affection has left our marriage. "I'm 99.9% certain they are all benign." What makes you so (99.9%) certain?
While she was my husband's friend first, she's my friend too, and there is nothing secret about it.I have for a long time looked the other way, sometimes becoming friends with these women myself, but his behavior recently has me questioning these relationships. Can you check his texts on his cell phone or hack his email account? That the messages don't reveal infidelity (physical or emotional) on his part? Many of them (such as Yahoo) automatically keep logs of all conversations.